Monday, December 22, 2008


Have you ever got that clumsy till you close the car door that tight till you remember that you left you fingers out there? I've been like that!! It is fucking painful alright. At first I could not even move a teeny weeny bit of my fingers till some time later. I hurts still now alright?!! Besides this, I was being laughed at and some jokes to make me feel better. Thanks so much for that. Of course, there was some where in between whereby pacifying helped to ease some pain.

Anyway, this is definitely not the first time I have encountered. When I was a kid, I always got my fingers caught between the lift doors (when it slide open, my fingers are always there without fail). The worse thing to it is that I stayed at the ground floor then. Next, is the gate or doors of my house. My fingers still get caught till now. At this age, I think none should have these self-inflicted accidents as one would have been aware of these. It is just me the clumsy one.

Thursday, December 11, 2008


Seriously, who are my friends? Friends are supposed to be there whenever you need them and yada yada. To those who are reading this post, ask yourself this question, have you been there for me?

Take for an example, my dad's death followed by my grandfather's, about 3-4 mths apart.
Had anyone sent their condolences? Had anyone came down to the wake? Had anyone asked how am I coping with all these parting of my loved ones? Perhaps a only few did. I really think that my sisters have better friends compared to mine. In anyways, the least they have done was to be there whenever needed.

As for mine, I recall myself giving in more than receiving till I can no longer bother any further. I don't ask for any return but at least appreciate the fact that I'd all I can subtly. I remembered using the last penny I had to exchange for my pal's well-being during prayers. In addition, I prayed all night till now for her well-being. (I think I'm really very superstitious but when you are hoping for one more day, that's the only thing you would do) I don't wish to lose a friend and I know that she has loads of unaccomplished stuff. But in anyways, I was the last to know about her health status. bah.. Worth it or not?

I'm not one who knows how to express myself, neither do I know how to communicate. Think most of the time, people just think that I'm too superficial. Seriously, after blogging, I don't even think anyone would even text me to ask me about how my life had been. It might be that I've let you down but think about it, to err is human.

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

16th Monthsary

We have been tgt for 16 mths.
16 mths of ups and downs till today.
Since the day we 1st met as frens, had dinner till today, its 510 days.
Though it might seems really long, to me, it seems only yesterday.

I brought Bear to Tampopo for dinner last evening.
As usual, I had complementary food from them. :)
Don't ask me why because I will not tell.
We enjoyed our food to bits.
Not to mention, it's by far the best Jap restaurant I've been to.

Looking back at all the months tgt, I remembered something really meaningful to us..
ODY.. One of my most memorable mthsary present.
He was given to me on 9th Oct 07, my 2nd mthsary gift.
Then, he was only abt 5 mths old.
The littlest puppy I've ever fall for.
Now, this lil boy has grown up to be a rascal that's loved by not only me and Bear but many others with his tiny pair of 'shimmering' eyes.

Thanks Bear for all the memories and I'm loving you more than anything..

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Hearts Holis

Went to MacRitchie with Bear and Ody despite the rain.
We totally enjoyed ourselves and esp Ody.
This fearless rascal wasn't afraid of those Monkeys.
He even wanted to give them a chase!! (faints)
Totally unimaginable if they were to end up in a fight. (there were so many of them)
Took pictures while walking.

Monday, December 1, 2008


my weekend was great!!
with Bear planning everything.
really appreciate it.

but Ody's was bad..
all he got was a BBQ on friday nite and the rest of the days was left at home. :(
and he showed me his displease by peeing on the floor in the morning..
can't really blame him thou..
anyway, he wouldn't be locked at home this weekend as there is a gathering coming up.

Monday, November 24, 2008

A Walk in the Garden

Brought Ody to the Bontanic Garden with the help of Ade and spouse. :)
Met up with the usual peeps there and started our journey to the waterfall for a round of photo taking, then to an open field for a run..
Ody enjoyed himself so much that he is seriously running everywhere.
Here are some pics of the walk.
Kena put on sit stay

Group Shot 1
Group Shot 2


Thursday, November 20, 2008


Gotten this from some chain mails...

When a GIRL is quiet ... millions of things are running in her mind.

When a GIRL is not arguing ... she is thinking deeply.

When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions ... she is wondering how
long you will be around.

When a GIRL answers ' I'm fine ' after a few seconds ... she is not at all

When a GIRL stares at you she is wondering why you are lying.

When a GIRL lays on your chest .. she is wishing for you to be hers forever.

When a GIRL wants to see you everyday... she wants to be pampered.

When a GIRL says ' I love you ' .. she means it.

When a GIRL says ' I miss you ' .... no one in this world can miss you more than

Life only comes around once, make sure u spend it with the right person ....

Find a guy .. who calls you beautiful instead of hot.

who calls you back when you hang up on him.

who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who kisses
your forehead.

Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.

Who holds your hand in front of his friends.

Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he
is to have you.

Who turns to his friends and says, ' That's her!! '

I think these are the minimum girls want from her guy but many a times, girls missed the above when they are so infatuated.
I was asked if I'm looking at marriage when I date my Bear.
What I can say is that, marriage is still very far away from me.
Its not that I'm still looking for the right one to come by but I think I'm still not perfect enough for anybody.
I'm still the stubborn lil girl who thinks that no matter what guys should be the one giving in to everything, with no regards of who is right.
I'm still the girl that is taking things for granted though being reminded umpteen times.
I'm still the girl who complains and wants more despite already having the best.
There are just too many things to patch in this relationship on my side, thus marriage?? Totally out of the question.

Despite all these, I'm really lucky to have my Bear giving me chances and time to perform the patch so that this r/s will be strong and allows no backdoor. Virus is needed to be quarantined and Trojan to be trashed out. (Pardon me for being too IT)
In my opinion, its up to both to make the r/s work. Accept whatever that comes with an open mind and work through them together. :) It may sound easy but I can tell you that it's not. Patience and loads of it is needed to be available before things can work out.

Monday, November 17, 2008

Happy Birthday Babes

Happy Birthday to Mum and Prissy.
Cooked both of them Yong Tau Fu Mee Sua early in the morning.

Headed to Expo for the Crocs sales but the queue was a killer. (favourite pastime of S'poreans)
Should have taken a picture of the queue.
All that walked out from the Hall was carrying at least 2 bags full of shoes.
It just tell how cheap those shoes were.

Trained to the Airport for Popeyes. Yummilicious.
La and Prissy each ate 3 biscuits together with their mains..
You can imagine how gluttony they are.

Then we took a bus down to Hougang to carry out what is expected and bought mum a bag for her marketing.
After this, trained down to Clarke Quay for dinner at Tampopo.
I must say that the food there is the BEST Japanese Cuisine in SG.
The ramen, sashimi and DESSERT are worth trying..
They'll never fail you in any aspect.

Of course we camwhored the whole time through other than having all the delicious temptations that no one can resist not digging in once its served. :P


Bear will be leaving on a jet plane this evening..
forever flying here and there..
he's neither a steward nor pilot but flying almost every month.
hate this!!
yes, i'm complaining..

Thursday, November 13, 2008


This lil boy with Paris Hilton..

Monday, November 10, 2008

30 Things Guys Want Girls To Know!!

1. We're not as perverted as you think we all are.

2. No matter what YOU say, your ex-boyfriend IS a LOSER.

3. We like you to give us hugs and kisses sometimes too.

4. Don't argue with us when we call you beautiful.

5. Don't treat us like crap, what goes around comes around.

6. We know you're pretty, that's one of the reason's we're going out with you.

7. Don't go into detail about your period. It scares us.

8. If you have cramps and we ask you what's wrong, just tell us it's that time of the month and nothing more.

9. If you really liked us for us, you would let us think that our mustache, beard, or sideburns looked cool.

10. We never shave our legs. So get over it.

11. NEVER ask us if you can put makeup on us. It's just wrong............

12. Don't make bets about us, because one of your friends will tell us, if you don't.

13. When we tell you that you're not fat, believe us.

14. We absolutely do not care about the Backstreet Boys, *NSYNC, 98 Degrees, or what any other guy looks like for that matter.

15. We may not be able to pee accurately all of the time, but at least we can stand up and go pee.

16. Just cause you think you're always right, doesn't mean that you don't have to apologize when you do something "wrong."

17. You expect us to say and do sweet things for you, but it would be nice if you did the same every once in a while. We like to know that you love us.

18. We can't always be spontaneous, so try to help us make the plans sometimes.

19. Don't ask us to beat up another guy for you, cause you might get what you wish for.

20. Never kick us in the nuts "just to see what we would say". That's just mean.

21. Never pretend like you are going to break up with us and laugh when we believe you.

22. Pamela Anderson's boobs aren't fake anymore, but we like yours better anyway.

23. Size doesn't matter, except to idiots who don't want a relationship.

24. PMS is not an excuse.

25. If you want us to put the seat down when we're done, you should put it up when you're done.

26............ Don't tell us how cute your ex-boyfriend was. That doesn't turn us on.

27. And always remember: The way to a guys heart is through his stomach..... and maybe....oh nevermind.

28. NEVER ask us to kiss other guys. You might be that comfy with your friends, but to us it's just wrong.

29. We always notice how funny it is after your rip out our heart, stick it down our throat and still want to be friends.

30. And last but not least: We know you're not always right, but we'll pretend like you are anyway.


Went for my 3rd driving lesson at SSDC.
I must say that it's freaking STRESSFUL being behind the WHEEL and I've totally regretted choosing MANUAL over AUTO.
Clutch, Brakes, Gear Shifting, Mirrors, Blind spots..
I totally hate it having to remember so many procedures before making a turn, stopping on target and yada yada..

On my way to prawning, saw a lying on the road, most likely being knocked down by the big truck.
We were travelling a lil too fast to stop to help so we proceeded.
Pray hard that the man survived.

Went to Pasir Ris for prawning and saw Stella and frens there but before I noticed them, I heard Ben SHOUTING my name at the top of his voice.
They caught like 9 prawns with 2 rods over 4 hrs whereas we caught 12 with one rod over 3 hours.. YEAH!! (just as we start prawning, most of the 'prawners' left leaving us with lesser competition)
As usual, Bear did the cooking of the prawn with butter, garlic and cheese in the oven.
Preparing what he needed and clearing up all the mess that he created.
I must say that he's a great cook!!
Nice buttery(oily) prawns for supper and all that were persent simply love it.

Prissy went to OBS today.
This means that I wouldnt see her for 5 days and I'll have my bed free from her on it. =)
Ody will have her bed with Chip & Dale attacked for 5 days.

Friday, November 7, 2008


This is really very farny!!
Must watch how this guy sing to his puppies to slp.

Wednesday, November 5, 2008


just some childish, juvenile rantings to someone who obviously need some self-reflections.
me trying to mediate is a wrong move so i shan't bother anymore.
and i wouldn't PATRONISE from now on as TOLD! WHATEVER!!!
likewise, DO NOT TRESPASS INTO MY LIFE as i'm not the one who sings the same song with ya.
see it as a threat? can't be bothered.
just wanna make known that its just a WARNING!

Monday, November 3, 2008


Our planned Halloween was ruined by my gastric.
Instead of heading down to Cafe Del Mar, we went to Tiong Bahru for a bowl of hot and delicious congee.
Thereafter, headed down to Tampines Mall to catch Coffin.
Bear thinks that it will be the best show for Halloween and serve him right for choosing that and was rewarded with a pinch during the midst.

Went for my distant cousin's wedding on Saturday.
Have never seen him before, know nothing about him and his family.
Interactions were very minimal besides talking to my sisters.
Took a number of photos thou. (camwhoring is what we do best)
Enjoyed the dinner and headed home..

Sunday? Family day with all the ladies being couch potato. =P

la and mepris and la
me, pris and la
me and pris
the ladies
they walking in on the red carpet
camwhore even in the toilet

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Eat, Laugh, Shop

Met up with Jiao and Min yday.
It has been a very long time since we last met each other(like 2 yrs) thou we stayed so near each other.
Just for your information, we stay in the same neighbourhood and just 3 mins away from each other.

Went to Waraku at Sq2 after much of indecisive suggestions.
I must say that the food there is SUPERB!!
It is even better than some Italian restaurants out there.
I must say that their Grapefruit drink is kinda horrendous.
Jiao was having a very hard time drinking it and ended up sneezing non-stop.
Walked and shopped around the place and found a place to rest our feet, took a couple of photos.
Talked about how we actually know each other and was nowhere near concluding the actual details.
All we concluded was that we know each other through IPP.
Had a great time laughing at all the jokes and the things that we did before.

Anyway, Good Luck Jiao for your exams.. =)

look at them..
me and min
min and jiao
jiao emo

trying to make her look happier
her shag look after the whole nite of studying

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Bear Birthday

Went to Sentosa and stayed over at Siloso Beach Resort. (photo)
The room was great and there's a roof top jacuzzi just nice for the 2 of us.
Bad thing of the whole trip was that it rained non stop.

Went to Zouk with Bear and his friends.
It has been years since I last step into a club.
Gotta help my Bear drink as his pals are 'monsters'.
They are all out to make Bear drunk.
Of course, we both puke!!
Slept for only 3 hrs and I'm unable to get back to dreamland.
I'm freaking tired now but have to prepare the food for tmr's pot luck.

Tuesday, October 21, 2008


I find that this might be informative for dogs owners.

Monday, October 20, 2008

Ody's OT

After 10 weeks of training, Ody failed his OT.
I must say that I've seen loads of improvement after OT and my objectives are met.
As for him failing, I'm rather disappointed as he did pretty well in all except Stand for Examination.
First of all, he refused to stand becos Patrick was near him.
When Patrick walked towards him, he ran off and came to my side.
Patrick then asked me to put him in Sit Position and he walked towards Ody again.
Ody was just too petrified that he ran to my side again. sigh.
It was an immediate failure thou Ody performed pretty well for his Sit-Stay and Down-Stay.
Anyway, I'm always welcome to go back for a re-test. sweat.
I'm sure I'll bring him back for a re-test and make sure he pass well this time. (with Patrick not touching him for "Stand for Examination")

After training, brought him to Pet Movers tgt with Pebble and Cobi.
They really enjoyed themselves by getting all dirty and being able to ran about with no restrictions.
Then we headed to Urban Pooch to celebrate the completion of OT.
As usual, I'll make Ody Sit-Stay before he's allowed to take his meal.
He's so protective over his food that when Pebble went over to check his food out, he almost fought with Pebble over that.
Bad lil boy he is.
Spanked him and he obediently sat and one place and wait for my 'OK' command before he can take his meal.

Went home in disappointment still but I'm still very very proud of my lil boy. =)
Showered him, blow him dry, brush him and yada yada.
Of course, with loads of pretty helpers and Ody was so loved by them.
Thanks lil girlies.
Ody BoyEbi
God Brothers
Smiley Boys