Broadway Beng

Watched Broadway Beng at the Esplanade.
I have to declare that I finally got to watch this musical with my friends.
Always wanted to watch it with Shaun but the day never come.
I totally enjoyed the musical and the proposal was really something so fairytale, so sweet that every girl will say yes to it.

Not sure why these days I'm feeling odd.
Like the fireworks at Vivo, it just feels so whimsical.
It might be due to the ignorance of the fireworks display on that day.
In the past, I used to watch fireworks display knowing the details and have never really appreciated the effort of getting myself there with someone that I loved.
Was standing really close to the firing platform and the feeling was completely different.
I teared while watching it, thinking of the past. =(

Sad memories are the worst things in my life but I just can't seem to get rid of it.
Worst of all, sad memories are the ones that hit most and happy ones are always forgotten very quickly.
Will just have to load myself with loads of happy memories that I can keep and remember forever.

Calories Watch

Calories - Bah Kut Teh, Buffet @ Inter-Continental, Astons, Crabs.
This is a hell load of calories for 4 evenings straight in a row.
Gotta think of how to lose them. (it's going to be exercise and more exercise)

Had a mini birthday celebration for Angela

Went to a park to get some photo shoots with Ade and Vic and of course the dogs. :)
Just can't wait to see the photos.

Us at the park with the guys as photographer

Bear, Vic and I are going on a trip to Mt Ophir this weekend.
The thought of walking up to the summit to catch the sunrise is making me so enthusiastic.
I can't wait for weekend to come!!!

Intellectual Games

I think we all know the rules of the game when it comes to 'Hunting for the right one'.
First thing foremost, do not try hitting on girls that are attached.
Though the girl might be trying to hide her relationship status, once know about it, should just back off and start casting again.
Right morals are one of the factor that impress anyone.

Next, guys should not be too pushy in wanting to meet his objectives.
Like wanting to meet the girl and just appear at her doorstep.
I think it may work for perhaps once or twice but not all the time.
If it ever happens to me, I will feel so obliged.
In another words, do less and the attraction factor will come into play as the other party will think why is he/she not a tad bit interested in me.

Lastly, playing hard to get may work but too much will kill too.
By creating that sense of mystery, unfamiliarity, and the thrill of the chase end up becoming too elusive that the other person assumes they’re not interested or the other person after a while gets tired, gives up and moves on.

reference: http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi/47_dating_girl.html

Bear and I have talked about the above and I am really impressed with all his answers.
He gives me the sense of security and hows me how much this relationship means to him.
We both agree that I am really weak at rejecting others and will learn to work on that. (:
Lastly, personally thinks that those who have yet watch the movie, He's just not into you, should really go catch them. (DVDs or leech from somewhere.. You know what I mean)

Deciding Factor

There was once Prissy threw me this question, "How long have you known Bear before both start dating?"
Obviously, we haven't know each other for a long period of time.
Next question she asked was, "What made you so sure that he is the one for you at that moment of time?"
Me? Totally speechless.
So I asked Bear the exact same question and i got nothing from it.
I am not sure is it whether he do not wish to answer or he has no answer for it.

Now if you were to ask if I have regretted going into a relationship with him, I will say, "NO!"
He is the one that pampers me a lot, taught me loads of morals and yada yada.
I have never apologised to my mum after throwing tantrum ever in my life but after knowing Bear, I actually did it and with a hug.
And I believe that mum was really amazed and touched.

Next will be our future.
Will we be together till we age and leave the world?
Or will me just leave when time is up?
Seriously, both of us do not know what the future might hold.

Lastly, I have to announce to all that today is our 21st monthsary. :)
I love my Bear loads and seriously LOADS.
Just bare with me being so mushy~

Leaving on a Jet Plane

In less than 24 hours I'll be in a foreign land.
A land whereby citizens don't usually speak English.
A land whereby loads of shopping can be done. :)
And people with LOADS of common sense will know that Bear's free for the week!!
He's available for anything and everything.
Ody will be with his Godpawrents, Ade and Vic, having the company of Cobi.
No more 'annoying' lil cutie, Zaedy boy.
No more choking on his golden fur that sheds like crazy. :P
As for mummy, she's all good with her other 3 precious daughter. :)

Guitar Lessons

Now I totally understand the pain that all musicians have to go through.
My fingers are totally aching after my first guitar lesson last evening.
It kinda feel blistered and I just can't seem to get the chords rite.
Kinda pissed with myself but the Instructor was saying that it'll be alright. -.-
From the bottom of my heart, I FINALLY TOOK UP MY GUITAR LESSON!!
Been having this thought and finally took the first step together with Bear.
Sustaining a relationship in Singapore is really hard, nothing much can be done and we thought of picking up guitar. Another skills I suppose. :P
Am looking forward to my next guitar lesson.
Till then...
ciaos

Kaiho Sushi

Bear and I went there for dinner and we both love it so much. I gave the chef a budget of $80 each and he came out with the below mentioned dishes.
Appetiser: Duo Miao and Kai Lan
Sashimi: Flying Fish, Salmon, Fatty Tuna, Red Tuna, White Fish, Ebi and Hamachi
Soup: Teapot Soup
Blow Torched Sushi: Dun really know the name of the fish but it taste darn delicious
Sushi: Hotate, Salmon, White Fish and Tuna
Grill: Flying Fish (The sauce is simply delicious. There's loads of bones so be careful when consuming)
Dessert: Green Tea Ice-cream with Red Bean Topping and Lemon Ice cream
Photos are extracted from his website, http://www.bernardtang.com/.

It's a dinner place worth going back again. slurps.
Will bring my mum there for her favourite sashimi. :)

Happy Happy Happy

1st of all, I've completed all my driving lessons.
woohoo~
this means that i'm able to book for my prac test but to my dismay, the system sucks and the dates are fully booked.
anyway, will have to go down to ssdc to check on the dates all over again

2nd, i went for a morning walk and fishing on Saturday.
Had loads of fun with those peeps and I caught the most number of fish.
GIRL POWER!!
Here's the fish and prawns(quite some time ago) that we caught and mum taught me how to steam it. DROOLS!


3rd, it is our monthsary today. :D
have been tgt for 19mths and hoping for many more to come.

Fishing

Went fishing finally =)
I insisted that Bear should bring me fishing since I miss fishing so damn much.
Though I know it is a hassle to bring me there as the place is super inaccessible and we have to walk on rocks just to get there.
Then, it started raining and ruined my highly spirited self (for that once only).
Bear gave me his poncho and was totally drenched, and I was so touched by what he did for me, all wet and cold.
Seriously, I'm really proud to have a boyfriend like him.
One that will always control his temper and very patient with me. :)
The one that shower me with love without fail and try to reason out with me whenever I'm wrong.
What more can I ask for??

When I see you...

I run out of words to say...

Weekends III

BBQ with the SGNorth peeps ->Mahjong till 4->Interrupted sleep at 730 by the boys->Grooming session for the poochies->Tour around Changi->Found a new fishing site

Thanks Ade and Vic for the ride. Really enjoyed the road trip. My first time seeing so many hermit crabs and they are really HUGE!! Definitely not those, ha ha crabs, you see selling in shopping centres.

Lastly, to Bear, Happy 18 Monthsary!!
Didn't manage to make a delicious cheesecake but I'll try to make it better the next time round ya?
I'm actually proud of my first attempt because of the look but not the taste. heez

Zaedy

La adopted a new dog..
He's a JRT X Poodle..
Uber CUTE!!
Really manja (sticky)..
Go to http://woofchronicle.blogspot.com/ to view his updates..
:)

I was very surprised by Bear's actions.
Bear was so patient with Zaedy in hand feeding him.
We never have this problem with Ody cos he gobble his food down in seconds.

Please inform me if anyone is gonna give up a Husky. :)

16th Monthsary

We have been tgt for 16 mths.
16 mths of ups and downs till today.
Since the day we 1st met as frens, had dinner till today, its 510 days.
Though it might seems really long, to me, it seems only yesterday.

I brought Bear to Tampopo for dinner last evening.
As usual, I had complementary food from them. :)
Don't ask me why because I will not tell.
We enjoyed our food to bits.
Not to mention, it's by far the best Jap restaurant I've been to.

Looking back at all the months tgt, I remembered something really meaningful to us..
ODY.. One of my most memorable mthsary present.
He was given to me on 9th Oct 07, my 2nd mthsary gift.
Then, he was only abt 5 mths old.
The littlest puppy I've ever fall for.
Now, this lil boy has grown up to be a rascal that's loved by not only me and Bear but many others with his tiny pair of 'shimmering' eyes.

Thanks Bear for all the memories and I'm loving you more than anything..

Hearts Holis

Went to MacRitchie with Bear and Ody despite the rain.
We totally enjoyed ourselves and esp Ody.
This fearless rascal wasn't afraid of those Monkeys.
He even wanted to give them a chase!! (faints)
Totally unimaginable if they were to end up in a fight. (there were so many of them)
Took pictures while walking.

Weekend

my weekend was great!!
with Bear planning everything.
really appreciate it.

but Ody's was bad..
all he got was a BBQ on friday nite and the rest of the days was left at home. :(
and he showed me his displease by peeing on the floor in the morning..
argh!!
can't really blame him thou..
anyway, he wouldn't be locked at home this weekend as there is a gathering coming up.
:)

Girls...

Gotten this from some chain mails...

When a GIRL is quiet ... millions of things are running in her mind.

When a GIRL is not arguing ... she is thinking deeply.

When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions ... she is wondering how
long you will be around.

When a GIRL answers ' I'm fine ' after a few seconds ... she is not at all
fine.

When a GIRL stares at you she is wondering why you are lying.

When a GIRL lays on your chest .. she is wishing for you to be hers forever.

When a GIRL wants to see you everyday... she wants to be pampered.

When a GIRL says ' I love you ' .. she means it.

When a GIRL says ' I miss you ' .... no one in this world can miss you more than
that.

Life only comes around once, make sure u spend it with the right person ....

Find a guy .. who calls you beautiful instead of hot.

who calls you back when you hang up on him.

who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who kisses
your forehead.

Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.

Who holds your hand in front of his friends.

Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he
is to have you.

Who turns to his friends and says, ' That's her!! '

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I think these are the minimum girls want from her guy but many a times, girls missed the above when they are so infatuated.
I was asked if I'm looking at marriage when I date my Bear.
What I can say is that, marriage is still very far away from me.
Its not that I'm still looking for the right one to come by but I think I'm still not perfect enough for anybody.
I'm still the stubborn lil girl who thinks that no matter what guys should be the one giving in to everything, with no regards of who is right.
I'm still the girl that is taking things for granted though being reminded umpteen times.
I'm still the girl who complains and wants more despite already having the best.
There are just too many things to patch in this relationship on my side, thus marriage?? Totally out of the question.

Despite all these, I'm really lucky to have my Bear giving me chances and time to perform the patch so that this r/s will be strong and allows no backdoor. Virus is needed to be quarantined and Trojan to be trashed out. (Pardon me for being too IT)
In my opinion, its up to both to make the r/s work. Accept whatever that comes with an open mind and work through them together. :) It may sound easy but I can tell you that it's not. Patience and loads of it is needed to be available before things can work out.

Fly~

Bear will be leaving on a jet plane this evening..
forever flying here and there..
sigh.
he's neither a steward nor pilot but flying almost every month.
hate this!!
yes, i'm complaining..

Bear Birthday

Went to Sentosa and stayed over at Siloso Beach Resort. (photo)
The room was great and there's a roof top jacuzzi just nice for the 2 of us.
Bad thing of the whole trip was that it rained non stop.

Went to Zouk with Bear and his friends.
It has been years since I last step into a club.
Gotta help my Bear drink as his pals are 'monsters'.
They are all out to make Bear drunk.
Of course, we both puke!!
Slept for only 3 hrs and I'm unable to get back to dreamland.
I'm freaking tired now but have to prepare the food for tmr's pot luck.
-.-''
yawns..
SAVE ME!!

Children's Home

Went to Serangoon Gardens to do a volunteer work with Bear and the MRS forum members.
The home housed children from many different backgrounds like single parent family, low income family and yada yada.
They are rather rowdy and notorious in general.
Shouting and pushing their peeps away when anyone is irritated.

Bear and I were with this group of little boys who just finished their PSLE.
They were supposed to do their work with us tutoring them but we were too engross with the rubik's cube that we joined in the fun too.
Watched for a while and left for another table.
Played UNO with the girls this time round.
I'm just such a bad influence. =P
There was a guy who was playing the piano and soon after one volunteer came in, he was asked to stop and start tutoring them.

Overall, it was a rather fun and meaningful day.
Will do something like this more often. =)
Will train Ody to be a therapy dog bringing joy to the folks. =D

Hall where they do their work



i know i shdnt be playing with them
the cars

she's just camera shy
dodge ball

Happy Birthday to Me

Had a really wonderful celebration for my birthday, planned solely by Bear and the theme is SKY. I was brought to the Singapore Flyer on 1st Oct to catch the sun set ride but to our dismay, the clouds were just too thick that made it impossible. Nevertheless, it was a rather fun ride with people of different backgrounds and countries sharing the same capsule with us. Shaunnie Bear was up with us too. I can tell that he's also enjoying the scenic view.

Before going catching the ride, we both went to Build-a-Bear and that's how Shaunnie Bear comes about. I choose this Bear named Champ due to the patched heart on the left. Next, it stuffing time. I stuffed the bear with the help of the SA and lil Bear has 2 hearts. Hearts that will make him handsome but not clever. Laughs. He might be 'hong sim' thou. Showering him seems so fun!! Brushing him all over and it is so much easier compared to showering my lil rascal, Ody. And now down to dressing him up. Red boxers with hearts motif was what we chosen as not the cover the patched heart and he will be in his PJs all day waiting for me in bed. :P Bear chose the Happy Birthday cupcake and rose for me too. After paying, I gotta say a vow. A vow that will promise lil Bear that I would love him and not abandon him. This made everything more meaningful. Lastly, lil Bear has a birth certificate too. =)

Roamed around in town, looking for places where Oktober Feast will be held. Perferably one that can hold dogs too. :P

When its close to midnight, Bear brought me to Dempsey Road. Supposed to spend my 0000hrs at P.S. cafe but it's closed. :( Headed down to Ben and Jerry's and to our disappointment, they were closed too. sigh. I was sulking by then. In the end, Bear brought me to Oosh, I spent my last birthay there too. At 0000hrs, the band sang me a Birthday song and a chocolate trufle was served. I was totally surprised. Thanks Bear for taking so effort in making this work.

And on my actual day, Bear bought me a balloon with Happy Brithday printed on it together with a yellow party hat and drove up Mt Faber for Sky Dinning. Knowing that I will love watching the sunset, he brought me there before the sun could set. To our disappointment again, the thick clouds dampened the excitment. Regardless the sunset, we enjoyed our dinner pretty much. A chocolate mousse birthday cake was served too. slurps.

To bear, I am really touched with the execution of all these plans and thanks loads for making it work. :) You're the only one who made this special day so splendid and romantic. Love ya heaps.. xoxo.