Girls...

Gotten this from some chain mails...

When a GIRL is quiet ... millions of things are running in her mind.

When a GIRL is not arguing ... she is thinking deeply.

When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions ... she is wondering how
long you will be around.

When a GIRL answers ' I'm fine ' after a few seconds ... she is not at all
fine.

When a GIRL stares at you she is wondering why you are lying.

When a GIRL lays on your chest .. she is wishing for you to be hers forever.

When a GIRL wants to see you everyday... she wants to be pampered.

When a GIRL says ' I love you ' .. she means it.

When a GIRL says ' I miss you ' .... no one in this world can miss you more than
that.

Life only comes around once, make sure u spend it with the right person ....

Find a guy .. who calls you beautiful instead of hot.

who calls you back when you hang up on him.

who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who kisses
your forehead.

Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.

Who holds your hand in front of his friends.

Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he
is to have you.

Who turns to his friends and says, ' That's her!! '

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I think these are the minimum girls want from her guy but many a times, girls missed the above when they are so infatuated.
I was asked if I'm looking at marriage when I date my Bear.
What I can say is that, marriage is still very far away from me.
Its not that I'm still looking for the right one to come by but I think I'm still not perfect enough for anybody.
I'm still the stubborn lil girl who thinks that no matter what guys should be the one giving in to everything, with no regards of who is right.
I'm still the girl that is taking things for granted though being reminded umpteen times.
I'm still the girl who complains and wants more despite already having the best.
There are just too many things to patch in this relationship on my side, thus marriage?? Totally out of the question.

Despite all these, I'm really lucky to have my Bear giving me chances and time to perform the patch so that this r/s will be strong and allows no backdoor. Virus is needed to be quarantined and Trojan to be trashed out. (Pardon me for being too IT)
In my opinion, its up to both to make the r/s work. Accept whatever that comes with an open mind and work through them together. :) It may sound easy but I can tell you that it's not. Patience and loads of it is needed to be available before things can work out.